Reading your post, it appears you don't completely understand what Auto Reset means.
Auto Reset is a term we use in our industry to describe cartridge chips that don't require a separate reset tool to reset the cartridges. Auto Reset does not mean you're able to reset the ink levels at will, that is not the case with any 3rd party cartridges that you'll get from anywhere with or without a reset button.
The way the reset process works for Epson is that you have to allow the printer to tell you that level has reached 0, only then can you reset the ink level for a particular color. At that time you will have to remove the cartridge and place it back in the printer to reset the levels.
What the reset button does is cut the communication between the chips on the cartridges and the printer, not really reset anything. So it's the equivalent of pulling the cartridges out.
We currently do have instructions available for you, if you could send us an e-mail I will be glad to send that to you. firstname.lastname@example.org
Our Epson chips are the Auto Reset version, btw.